Monday 31 July 2023

Holidays

In a place like The Yorkshire Dales, until maybe fifty years ago this was quite a closed commmunity - as were many fairly remote areas, especially in the North of the country.   These were mainly farming communities  where the farms were either tenanted from the 'big' landowners who still own large tracts of the (often)moorland around here, or small, family owned farms like that of 'my' farmer.   Many had a relatively small (maybe 50 to 100) number of    cows, milked and the milk collected daily by milk tanker from the dairies (and not all that long ago taken to the railway station in churns).  In addition those farms up in the tops of the dales would have a large flock of mostly Wensleydale and / or Swaledale sheep.   These would be hefted sheep brought down to over-winter often in 'spare' fields from the farmers in the lower part of the dale.   

The very word 'holiday' was not in their vocabulary.   In the first place money was never very plentiful but also most farmers loved their cows far too much to let others milk them and as far as sheep were concerned - what were the often expensive sheep dogs for?   To go round the flocks daily to see that all  was well.

Then, slowly at first, then more rapidly, things began to change.   Words like 'early-retirement' began to reverberate - especially in the South of the Country.   Folk who for years had spent their holidays rambling up here in The Yorkshire Dales and other such beautiful areas began to sell their houses 'down South', take 'early retirement' and come up here house hunting - knowing they could buy a beautiful cottage and 'do it up' to their liking and still have money to spare.

I remember the farmer sitting one evening and counting just how many people in the village were actually born there.   After a lot of searching through his memory he thought of eleven.

Those who weren't involved in farming tended to have service industry jobs - the bricklayers, the electricians, the plumbers, the stone wallers.   In other words it was a tightly knit community.   Many of the locals had perhaps a spare cottage - on the farm, left to them by a parent - and these were 'done up' and sold, or let off as holiday accommmodation.

And so the whole ethos began to change.  More money came into the area and more folk to whom a couple of weeks flying off to the sun somewhere was second nature. 

My dear farmer had only been on holiday once (he was fifty when we married) and that was to Majorca when he was in Young Farmers - he was in his late teens.

The first two years of our married life I holidayed alone - once to Marrakech and once to Siena.   Then at his suggestion he got a reliable man in to milk for him for a week and we flew to Toronto.   He loved it and so did I.   I was a seasoned traveller from the thirty nine years of my first marriage - he was a novice at it.   But travelling alone is not like going on holiday with someone you love, someone to share everything with.  We never looked back - and no harm came to his cows.   They didn't even tell him they were pleased to see him back.

Now the young round here shoot off for their week in the sun every year  - fly from the nearest airport by the economy airlines and soak up the sun.

But things are changing - or are they?  Airports, which used to be quite exciting places, are no longer like that.   Regulations, long queues, train delays getting there or high car parks cost if you have driven to the airport.  It is seven years since I flew now but looking at the television of the airport queues doesn't make me wish I could join them any more than the queues for the Dover ferry. 

And then there is Climate Change - I am sure many returning families from Rhodes have horror stories to tell just as families from other places hit by the very high temperatures -  too hot to lie in the sun, make sand pies on the sands, swim in the sea.   And who wishes to traipse round ancient sites in temperatures of forty plus? 

Are places like Blackpool, Morecambe, Skegness, Great Yarmouth going to have a rebirth?   They certainly need it - from what I hear from people who have been they are desperately in need of a make over.   Gone are the days of street upon street of 'Boarding Houses' where it was out after breakfast and only allowed back in an hour before evening meal.  Television, hearsay, blame what you like, we will never go back to those days.  "Sophistication" has reared its ugly head.   So where do we go from here? 

17 comments:

Derek Faulkner said...

Here on the Isle of Sheppey in North Kent, where I have lived all my life, we are being inundated with new housing estates. Many of these new houses are being bought by people moving out of the London area because they can afford these new houses in what used to be a lot of countryside, whereas local people can't.
It's clear that despite what over-hot weather, airport or ferry delays, that people will still have to have their two weeks abroad and in doing so, add to the carbon footprint that is causing climate change. I stopped going abroad fifteen years ago.

Amanda said...

My uncle was a diary farmer. I remember one Easter he came with my aunt to my grandmother's. The extended family was there, and my aunt was really enjoying the visit when my uncle announced they had to leave because they had to get back in time for milking. My aunt protested, saying "But it's Easter!" To which my uncle replied "Cows don't take no holidays!"

Heather said...

I think the younger generation will always want to travel abroad, but I find it all too exhausting and would need another holiday to get over the one abroad. Hopefully the current financial situation might make more people think about holidays in the UK. There are so many beautiful and interesting places to visit and no airport hastle. No fear of heatstroke and we are all used to carrying a mac, just in case!

Will said...

The inundation of countryside by new housing developments is a country-wide phenomenon. Here in the North East there is very little countryside left between Newcastle and the coast, and it is spreading inland as well. At present there doesn't seem to be a shortage of buyers, but for how long I wonder, as there is no corresponding infrastructure development to go with the housing.

A Smaller and Simpler Life said...

Where I now live, half way between Blackpool and Morecambe on the Lancashire coast, I can see the good old seaside holiday is absolutely thriving. The beach huts have long lists of names waiting to take them over and every time we go there are young families, young couples and elderly couples all enjoying the beach, the proms and the arcades. The B&Bs and hotels have 'No Vacancy' signs, so it appears that a lot of folk are at last saying 'no' to the airport queues and strikes and settling for a 'staycation' instead.

Oh, and Alan keeps asking me to buy him a bucket and spade!!

Yellow Shoes said...

I must concur with A Smaller and Simpler Life.
Yesterday there was a report on TV from Mablethorpe where business is booming; donkey rides, ice cream, fish and chips all working flat out.
At least for families with young children it makes much more sense to have a day or two at the local beach.

Tasker Dunham said...

We were wondering the very same thing about more people taking holidays further north, or in this country. I doubt in the long term that it is sustainable. We'll have to make our own entertainment. As I frequently quote, kids need to spend their summer holidays just sitting on a wall.

Traveller said...

What year did you go to Toronto and where did you stay when you were there? Asking because I lived there for a while.

Debby said...

"Where do we go from here?" I shudder to think.

Covid taught the world that they can work remotely. This enabled people to leave the big cities and move to more inexpensive, charming places like Cornwall. And suddenly people from the area can no longer afford to live there.

Things have changed a great deal.

Joanne Noragon said...

This is a lovely, beautifully written post.

Granny Sue said...

We are the oddities here, living in a place where almost everyone within 5 miles was born here. Most of their families go back generations, to when this land was first settled by Europeans. I joke that I had to move here to freshen the gene pool. As for vacations, my last was in 2019 when I went to England with my two of my sisters for our aunt's 98th birthday. I would love to travel again but these days the cost has soared beyond our budget. So any vacations will likely be stateside unless we can figure out some hidden source of money. Honestly, I have enjoyed staying home anyway, and spending so much more time in my gardens. That is the thing I love most.

Cro Magnon said...

The Tories are building a million new homes, the Socialists say it's not enough, and people (NIMBY's) say they're ruining the countryside. Second home owners will soon pay double Council Tax, and people are beginning to complain about Air B-n-B. N0-one is happy. Best just stay at home.

thelma said...

Some of the old photos of seaside places show overcrowded beaches (and trains). Farming will have to change, less cattle farting;) and more mixed crops. If, as predicted, the world gets hotter we shall have to work out how to keep cool. Our grandchildren will have to learn how to adjust and change, or we will simply die out, as we wait for the next epoch of history. On the whole I am an optimist, the pettiness of our society might sink below the waves.

But one thing I will say, as a child I went on a very bumpy plane to Torremolinos for our family holiday and stayed in an old fashioned hotel, it was unspoilt but now modern hotels fringe the beaches. Change happens.

Librarian said...

What you say about airports and flying is the main reason for my sister and I coming to Yorkshire by train now. Flying from Stuttgart to Manchester and then taking the Transpennine Express would not save that much time, and certainly be much worse formour carbon footprint. Also, you get to see a lot more of a country from a train, as you will know from your many trips, one of which was aboard the Transsib, if I remember correctly.

John "By Stargoose And Hanglands" said...

You bring to mind the farm-workers of my youth, especially my Dad's friend, Fred. Fred took just one week a year off work and that was in early spring to allow him to sort out his vegetable garden. Even then he'd walk to the farm twice a day to do the milking - he didn't trust anyone else with "his" cows. During the rest of the year his recreation consisted of going to the local working men's club on a Friday night for his bottle of brown ale (just the one) and sometimes in summer he'd bike to watch the village side play cricket, but never stayed to the end because he had to get back to his cows of course. He and his wife went to Cambridge just once a year, to buy any clothes they needed. He always seemed happy enough.

The Weaver of Grass said...

Traveller - the first time we went to Toronto was in June 1994 - I can't remember which hotel we stayed in. We went quite a few times over the next ten years or so - often travelling across Canada by train or crossing over at Niagara or thereabouts into the US - we loved the New England states in the US. Toronto that first time was a lovely, unspoilt place.
Tasker - trouble is they would be sitting on the wall playing with their i phones. Here in the school holidays I never see kids out playing - all inside. Such a shame. But then I see their parents taking the dog for its morning A smaller and simpler life - get that bucket and spade bought and get down to the lovely beaches around where you live! I am only about an hour and a half's drive from you. If I was mobile I would drive over and challenge him to a sandcastle competition.

Thanks everyone. We are all of the same mind for once!!

Anonymous said...

I have lived in Toronto all my life and boy oh boy has it massively changed. Not for the better as the politicians want to build condos on every scrap of land, whether appropriate or not. They are not putting in outdoor space for the people who will live in those condos. The roads are jammed and parking is hard to find. I live in a great neighborhood but we are fighting to block a 20 story condo from being built two blocks away on land that previously had 3 houses on it! Everything in the neighborhood is single houses, so it would be a terrible idea. We now have many gangs who go around shooting each other and sometimes killing people who were just in the wrong place. The politicians want to lower the police budget and spend more on low end housing. Everyday now shooting. They say its still a safe city but drugs are fueling all the crime.