Monday 30 October 2023

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 What to write about on a gloomy (although not particularly cold)morning when I have to say the weather complements the situation everywhere.

As my regular readers will know, I try never to be political on here.  (I am interested in politics but always have believed there is not a lot of point in going on about it as one never ever succeeds in changing the other man's point of view so it is just a waste of words).

But there is little to smile about either at home or abroad at present is there?

In the Israel/Gaza area people are killed indiscriminately - mothers, babies, children, the elderly, young men, fathers.   The list goes on - day by day until one hardly dare watch the News bulletins.   If I can't sleep I usually get up, make myself a cup of tea and watch the World News.   Not at the moment.

Ukraine - it has almost disappeared from News bulletins - as terrible situations occur to push the catastrophe one further down the list of 'newsworthy' happenings and the 'top' reporters are rushed from place to  place.

And nearer home the ground is totally waterlogged. Many places along the East Coast of Scotland and further inland in mostly Eastern counties too, homes are lost - many of the inhabitants have lost more or less everything and many of them it seems have been unable to afford the high insurance premiums.

Closer still to home and in a facetious way, the pothole in the road is full of water - it has been another wet night.      Almost all the dogs are being walked by men this morning (the women only come out with the sun at this time of day - poor old men are shoved out with threats of withdrawal of privileges in some cases I suspect).

Post has just been pushed through the front door - postman cloaked in winter wear  (wearing shorts up to last week - now I suspect washed, ironed and consigned to the 'Summer Wear' drawer).

Is there anything to lift our spirits?   Let's face it - everything I have written about above ranges from too awful to even contemplate at worst to floods - and the threat of more to come later in the week- at best.

Well I for one am warm and comfortable, have just bought myself a new winter sweater (made entirely from something like recycled plastic?) and have a little stack of presents to open in the morning (my birthday) and a shelf of cards already opened and already being enjoyed and lifting my spirits.  The garden is looking as though it is settling into Winter mode (but if Winter comes can Spring be far behind?) and friends keep calling.   The postman had a bright cheery smile and opened the door and put the post (and a parcel) on the hall mat (the postmen all know I walk very slowly so they save me the trouble of walking to the door.)

So I suggest all of us smile as much as we can - to cheer others up as well as ourselves, and just hope that the killing and cruelty - especially to those in Ukraine and Gaza ends soon.   There is little we can do - apart from perhaps a contribution to any of the major organisations helping out as much as they can in both war zones,.   But a smile - and just a word or two to anyone passing by - is better than nothing and without a doubt cheers up both the giver and the receiver.

See you tomorrow.

64 comments:

JayCee said...

Happy Birthday. Hope you enjoy your day and stay warm and comfortable.

Anonymous said...

I wish you a VERY Happy Birthday!!! Jackie

Mary said...

It's just such a lovely feeling knowing you are having another birthday dear Pat. May it be full of good moments and much happiness. I had my 80th on Thursday so have joined the 'octogenarian club' alongside you and several other blog friends! Where do I go from here? Like you I enjoy writing about my younger life, especially growing up in England, so hope to write more posts about it once settled. Just returned from the UK Tuesday so things are still not back to normal........and here it has been so hot compared to the cool, rainy days in Devon during my visit.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY dear.
Hugs, Mary (and Bob as he likes to keep up with you too!).

su-zee said...

Happy Birthday. Have a lovely day. xx

Gill said...

Happy Birthday, have a fabulous day

Gigi said...

Have a very happy bday and as many more as you would like. The years just speed by as it seems like it was your birthday yesterday. When you are a child each birthday takes forever to come. Hugs from Canada.

Ellen D. said...

Happy Birthday, Pat! Hope your year is filled with good health and lovely days!

Carol Caldwell said...

Happy Birthday. I hope you have a lovely day.

Sue said...

I hope you have a lovely birthday tomorrow, it sounds like the cards and presents have already been rolling in.

It's hard to remain cheerful in these current political, weather abused and horrifically war filled times isn't it, but I think if we all manage to raise a smile from someone everywhere we go and try to keep cheerful in our own little part of the world ... as you say, somewhat easier if you avoid the news on television as much as possible ... then we should get through it and still be relatively sane.

Again, Happy Birthday for tomorrow, I hope you have a great day. xx

Barbara Anne said...

Well said!

Happy Birthday to you, Pat, and may the coming year be one of good health, lubricated joints, good books, and good friends, near and far away.

Hugs!

Anonymous said...

Wishing you lots and lots of happy on your birthday. Jayne from Canada

thelma said...

May your birthday bring you a lot of happiness and a year of your friends always keeping in touch.
Happy Birthday dear Pat. xxx

Anonymous said...

Happy birthday from Kentucky!

Susan said...

Wishing you all the best on you special day. Happy Birthday! Enjoy. We'll just try to forget the wars for just one day.

Damselfly said...

Happy, happy birthday, Pat dear!

lexie said...

Happy Birthday!

I hope you will have lots more.

I really enjoy your blog .

gz said...

Happy birthday..wishing a lovely day and a good year ahead xx

Jennifer said...

Happy Birthday to you!!!

Librarian said...

Happy Birthday, Pat!!
I am sure you are making other people's day brighter by smiling and being kind to them every day, given the chance.
This morning, I was a bit grumpy when a lady asked to sit next to me (the seat was empty but booked from the next stop onwards). I felt ashamed afterwards and tried to make it up to the lady by explaining to her how to read the reservation system (it's surprisingly often that people don't see it until you point it out to them).

Susan said...

I'll be sound asleep when you wake to your birthday morning, so Happy Birthday from me. All these terrible things going on in the world but sadly not new. The horrible things in the Congo were making the headlines in the 1950s as I reached an age where I could read the newspapers. I feel sorry for children who have much more exposure to disturbing news today than we did.

Anonymous said...

Very happy birthday from Brittany, I wish you health and many happy returns. Thank you for each blog post, and for your wise words.
Maguy

dixie heath said...

Happy Birthday from your friend in West Virginia. Have a lovely day and a good year ahead.

Heather said...

Happy Birthday Pat. Your blog posts do make me smile. Hope you have a good day.

Country Cottage said...

Warmest birthday wishes to you.🎂 Enjoy your day tomorrow and I look forward to reading more of your lovely blog in the years to come. Viv

Linda from Alabama said...

Happy Birthday.....hope you have a nice day.
Linda from Alabama

gmv said...

Happy Birthday :)

You always seem to find the lining in the clouds. Just that makes me smile.

Lynn Ewing said...

Happy Birthday! I hope it’s grand. Lynn Ewing USA

Joan said...

Dear Pat, I’m a lurker coming out of hiding to wish you a very Happy Birthday. Thank you for your blog! Joan from Brittany

Red said...

The countries at war don't seem to have any thoughts but hate.

the veg artist said...

Penblwydd Hapus (Happy Birthday) Weave. Have a lovely day.

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Debby said...

Happy birthday, Pat!

Joanne Noragon said...

Happy birthday, Pat. You will be smiling today.

Ellen said...

Although I have just recently begun to read your blog, I want to add my good birthday wishes to those of your family, friends and readers.
Ellen in Ohio

anonymous said...

As always,you are an inspiration, Pat.I do contribute to organizations helping those in war torn nations..I hope and pray that your birthday holds joy and lovely surprises,Mary

Granny Sue said...

Wishing you the best of birthdays, Pat! I am thinking of all the change you have lived through, from the Great Depression to wars, coal- fired trains to high speed rail, radio to television to internet...and so many more. Through it all, the good and the bad, you continued living your life, teaching and sharing, gardening and observing nature, loving and being loved. You are right, we can't fix the world's grave problems, but we can do our best to maintain the things that make life good, at least in our little corners. Who knows, maybe one day those corners will all join up to cover this poor earth in peace and goodness. I try to keep believing that it really could happen one day. Sending love across the ocean! Enjoy your day and I do hope it will include cake!

Hilde said...

Best wishes from Germany for a very happy birthday! May it be filled with joy and laughter, cards, gifts, and of course cake!
Hilde

Hilde said...

There is something wrong with the time and date of the comments, I am writing this on 31 October at 5.41, but on the blog it says 30 October at 21.39.
Hilde in Germany

elliek said...

Happy Birthday from a small farming town in central Florida. Hope you are well and had a good day. Eat some cake for me.

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday from Down Under the other side of the world. Have a lovely day concentrating on how much you mean to others, how we enjoy gathering here to read your latest, and this time raise a toast to your health and happiness. Long may it continue.x - Pam, Adelaide, Australia.

Marlene said...

Another lurker here to wish you a very Happy Birthday for today, i so enjoy reading your blog
Marlene, north east Scotland

Margaret said...

Happy Birthday Blessings to you. I hope you have a day filled with joy, visitors, cards and gifts.
Margaret (New Zealand)

Heather said...

A wonderful post, and uplifting in spite of the current global situation. I count my blessings so often. It's just about the only thing I can do right now. How fortunate we are to live in Britain, although there is still plenty which needs action.
Love and best wishes for a lovely birthday. I hope it doesn't wear you out, and at least one ray of sunshine to brighten the day.x

Donna said...

Happy Birthday!
hugs
Donna

Bovey Belle said...

The news is not cheerful watching right now. So many families destroyed.

Ona cheerier note, Happy Birthday Pat. I hope you will have a special day and be spoilt by your son and his wife and other family members.

jeanie said...

Happy anniversary of spinning around the sun!! Nearing the end of your birthday here and it is a pretty good day from this angle. (From Queensland Australia courtesy of Debby)

Pixie said...

Happy Birthday!

Anonymous said...

Wishing you a very Happy Birthday, will be thinking of you.
Wendy (Wales)

Anonymous said...

A VERY VERY HAPPY 91st. BIRTHDAY, Hoping you have an enjoyable day. Barb

Camille said...

Happy birthday Weave. Wishing you a wonderful day.

Georgia said...

Happy 91st Birthday with best wishes from Princeton, New Jersey.

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday, Pat! i hope you are having a wonderful day. Renee in Tulsa, Oklahoma

Rae said...

Happy Birthday Weave from Princeton MN USA. My husband and I are celebrating 28 years of wedded bliss. (well, mostly bliss) I always wanted to be born on Halloween, but my mom couldn't hold our 6 more days. Hope you have a lovely birthday.

Laurie said...

Happy, Happy Birthday!!!
Enjoy your day and your new year ahead!!!
Hugs, hugs, hugs!!!

Bonnie said...

Happy Birthday! I always enjoy the view from your home, even if I don’t comment.
Bonnie in Minneapolis

RunNRose said...

Happy Birthday from Texas. You are the first blog I look for every day. Do hope you have enjoyed a good day.

Lesley Duncan said...

Happy Birthday

LizG said...

Happy birthday Pat! I hope you had a wonderful day.

Anonymous said...

happy birthday
typed from a library computer

with much love

going Gently Johnxxx

Pixie said...

I read a book by Annie Lyon that you might like, "The Air Raid Book Club". The name is self explanatory but your last paragraph reminded me of the book. The book was lovely and joyful and sad, much like life.

The Weaver of Grass said...

Thanks everyone for your birthday wishes - I had a lovely (tiring) day.

jinxxxygirl said...

Oh Goodness Pat... Happy Belated Birthday Wishes from Texas. Hugs! debs

Jacque from Colorado said...

Belated birthday wishes, WoG! As usual, I'm 'late to the party', but someone has to be! Hope your birthday was lovely as you begin yet another 'trip around the sun', as a friend of mine says about birthdays.

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